Imposter Syndrome in NYC Creatives: How Therapy Builds Confidence

Written By Alyssa Digges

Imposter syndrome is one of the most common struggles I hear from the artists, musicians, actors, and writers I work with in NYC. No matter how much you’ve accomplished, whether it’s landing roles, publishing your work, or getting positive recognition, you may feel like you don’t deserve it. Instead of celebrating your success, you worry someone will “find out” you’re not really talented.

As both a therapist and a performer in NYC, I know how common this struggle is. From Broadway audition rooms to gallery shows in Brooklyn to publishing deadlines in Manhattan, the pressure on creatives here can be overwhelming. Even after landing roles, securing gigs, or achieving milestones that others admire, many artists still feel like frauds.

If you’ve ever thought, “I just got lucky,” or “I don’t really belong here,” you’re not alone. Imposter syndrome affects countless creatives at every stage of their careers, from students to professionals at the top of their fields in NYC. The good news is: you don’t have to stay stuck in these patterns. Therapy can help you shift your mindset, build confidence, and reconnect with the joy of your creative work.

What Is Imposter Syndrome? Signs and Symptoms in NYC Artists

Imposter syndrome is the belief that you’re a fraud despite evidence of your talent and accomplishments. Psychologists first identified it in the 1970s, but it’s now widely recognized across industries, especially in the arts.

Some common experiences of imposter syndrome include:

  • Self-doubt: Constantly questioning whether you’re “good enough.”

  • Discounting success: Attributing achievements to luck, timing, or other people’s help.

  • Fear of exposure: Worrying that someone will find out you don’t actually belong.

  • Perfectionism: Believing your work must be flawless to prove your worth.

According to research from the American Psychological Association, imposter syndrome can overlap with anxiety, depression, and perfectionism, making it more than just a passing thought. Left unchecked, it can affect not only your creative career but also your mental health and sense of self.

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Why NYC Creatives Are Especially Vulnerable to Imposter Syndrome

Not every artist experiences imposter syndrome in the same way, but New York City’s unique environment amplifies the risk. The city is filled with world-class talent, constant competition, and industries where rejection is more common than acceptance.

For actors, auditions in Midtown often mean standing in line with dozens or even hundreds of equally talented performers. For writers, publishing houses and literary journals in Manhattan bring constant comparison and critique. Musicians and visual artists face similar struggles, playing gigs at Brooklyn venues or exhibiting work in Chelsea galleries, where feedback is immediate and sometimes harsh.

Social media adds another layer. NYC creatives are not just competing locally – they’re watching peers from around the globe post their successes in real time. That comparison culture can make even accomplished artists feel like they’re falling short.

When your art is both your passion and your livelihood, the stakes feel incredibly high. It’s no wonder so many NYC creatives end up questioning their belonging, even in spaces they’ve worked hard to earn.

How Imposter Syndrome Holds Back Artists, Writers, and Performers

While imposter syndrome may seem like “just thoughts,” it has real consequences. It can:

  • Stop you from taking risks: You might avoid auditions, submitting work, or trying new styles.

  • Fuel burnout: Constantly proving yourself can drain your energy.

  • Undermine confidence: Even when you succeed, you don’t let yourself feel proud.

  • Create isolation: Shame about your “fraudulence” can keep you from connecting with peers.

Left unchecked, these patterns can create a cycle: the more you push yourself to “earn your place,” the less you feel like you belong. Without support, this cycle can lead to creative paralysis or even stepping away from the work you love.

Strategies to Overcome Imposter Syndrome

While therapy provides the most personalized support, here are some strategies you can begin using right away:

1. Recognize the Signs

The first step is simply noticing when imposter thoughts show up. Ask yourself: “What am I telling myself right now?” Awareness gives you power to respond differently. You might even jot these thoughts down so you can start to see patterns, like when they tend to show up, what triggers them, and how they make you feel. Over time, recognizing these signs earlier makes it easier to interrupt the cycle before it takes over.

2. Challenge Perfectionism and Self-Doubt

Perfectionism and imposter syndrome go hand-in-hand. Start by experimenting with “good enough” rather than flawless. This might mean allowing yourself to share a draft, perform a piece, or submit an audition tape that isn’t 100% polished. Remind yourself that growth and creativity often come from taking risks, not from waiting until everything feels perfect.

3. Focus on the Process

Instead of obsessing over outcomes, allow yourself to enjoy the act of creating. Whether you’re rehearsing, writing, or painting, value the experience itself. The process is where growth, play, and discovery happen, even if the final product isn’t what you envisioned. When you give yourself permission to be fully present, the pressure of “getting it right” starts to loosen its grip.

4. Collect Real Evidence of Success

Keep a “success file” of emails, reviews, kind words from colleagues, or published works you’re particularly proud of that you can revisit when self-doubt creeps in. These reminders are proof that your talent and effort have made a real impact, even if your inner critic tries to say otherwise. Over time, looking back at this evidence can help retrain your brain to trust your strengths instead of defaulting to fear.

5. Practice Self-Compassion

Ask yourself: Would I say this to a fellow artist? If not, why am I saying it to myself? Learning to treat yourself kindly is a powerful way to break free from imposter syndrome. Self-compassion doesn’t mean ignoring mistakes. It means giving yourself the same patience and encouragement you’d offer to someone else who’s learning and growing. This mindset helps you create from a place of curiosity and courage rather than fear.

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How Therapy Helps You Break Free from Imposter Syndrome

Imposter syndrome isn’t just about confidence; it’s about how you relate to yourself and your art. Therapy gives you a judgment-free space where you don’t have to “perform.” Instead, you can show up as your authentic self and begin to explore these fears without judgment. In our work together, we can:

As a therapist and performer, I bring both clinical expertise and lived experience in NYC’s creative industries. I know the challenges of Broadway auditions, the vulnerability of sharing work publicly, and the grind of competitive environments. This allows me to support you in ways that honor both your artistry and your mental health.

If you’re struggling with imposter syndrome as an artist, performer, or writer in New York, you don’t have to navigate it alone. Therapy offers tools, validation, and strategies tailored to your unique challenges. I see clients in Manhattan and virtually across NYC. Schedule a free consultation today.

Learn more about how therapy can help: Therapy for Creatives in NYC: Mental Health Support for Artists, Performers & Writers

When to Reach Out

It may be time to seek support if imposter syndrome is:

  • Keeping you from auditions, gigs, or creative opportunities

  • Causing constant stress, anxiety, or sleepless nights

  • Preventing you from finishing projects

  • Leaving you disconnected from the joy of your craft

Therapy can help you shift these patterns before they lead to burnout or deeper struggles with anxiety and depression.

Final Thoughts: Finding Confidence as a Creative in NYC

Imposter syndrome doesn’t mean you’re not talented or you don’t belong. It means you care deeply about your craft and want to do your best work. You deserve to feel confident, proud, and free to create without fear of being “found out.” With the right support, you can break free from self-doubt, reconnect with your passion, and step fully into your creative potential.

If you’re an NYC creative struggling with imposter syndrome, I’d love to help. Reach out today to schedule a consultation for therapy in our Manhattan office or virtually, and take the first step toward creating with freedom and confidence.

FAQs about Imposter Syndrome

How can therapy help me with imposter syndrome?

Therapy helps you understand and challenge the inner voice that says you’re not good enough, even when your achievements prove otherwise. For NYC creatives, imposter syndrome often shows up during auditions, gallery shows, or writing submissions, where the competition is intense and self-doubt feels magnified. In therapy, you can learn practical tools to reframe perfectionism, quiet the “fraud” narrative, and build resilience in the face of rejection or criticism. Over time, therapy helps you connect more deeply to your values as an artist so you can create and perform with confidence rather than fear.

Are there therapists in New York who specialize in working with artists and performers?

Yes. New York City is home to many therapists who understand the unique challenges of creative careers, and at Insight Therapy NYC, this is the heart of my work. I specialize in supporting actors, musicians, dancers, writers, and other artists who navigate the constant pressure of auditions, performances, and the ups and downs of the industry. Because I understand both the emotional and practical realities of life in NYC’s arts world, therapy becomes a place where you don’t have to explain why rejection feels so devastating or why perfectionism keeps you stuck. You’ll be met with understanding, validation, and concrete strategies for moving forward. Reach out to schedule a free consultation today so we can talk more about what it might be like for us to work together.

Can therapy improve my confidence for auditions and performances?

Absolutely. Audition rooms and performance spaces in NYC can be some of the most intimidating in the world. Therapy helps you manage the anxiety that comes with these high-stakes moments by teaching grounding skills, reframing negative thoughts, and developing rituals that build confidence before you step on stage. We also work on separating your worth from external validation so that even if an audition doesn’t go as planned, your sense of self remains intact. With support, you’ll be able to show up more authentically—bringing not only your talent but also your confidence into every performance opportunity.

What’s the difference between imposter syndrome and regular self-doubt?

Self-doubt is a normal part of growth. It may surface before trying something new, but it typically fades once you gain experience or receive reassurance. Imposter syndrome, on the other hand, is persistent and pervasive. Even with evidence of success, like being cast in roles, getting published, or receiving positive reviews, you may feel like a fraud who doesn’t deserve your accomplishments. For NYC creatives, this can be particularly draining, since every success often comes alongside constant comparison with peers. Therapy can help you recognize the difference, challenge the “fraud” mindset, and build the confidence to own your achievements without downplaying or dismissing them.

Does imposter syndrome ever go away?

Imposter syndrome can lessen over time, but it rarely disappears completely on its own. For many NYC creatives, the pressures of auditions, constant comparison, and public evaluation mean that feelings of being a “fraud” can resurface at different points in their career. The good news is that therapy helps you change your relationship to those thoughts so they no longer control you. Instead of believing the inner critic, you learn to notice it, challenge it, and move forward anyway. Over time, these strategies build confidence and resilience, so while imposter thoughts may still pop up, they lose their power to hold you back from opportunities or diminish your successes.

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Alyssa Digges

Alyssa Digges is a therapist and performer based in New York City who specializes in the mental health of artists, actors, musicians, and writers. With both clinical expertise and lived experience in the performing arts, Alyssa understands the unique pressures creatives face. She offers individual therapy as well as consulting, workshops, and training for theatre programs and arts organizations, helping creatives build resilience and reconnect with the joy of their craft while protecting their mental health.


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